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           The Post Concilliar Marriage


     Q  What is your opinion about the post concilliar marriage preparation?

This is a big issue, because in many cases there is instruction on ¡°natural family planning¡± in a wrong way, as if it were legitimate to avoid children for ANY reason (NFP requires a JUST reason, such as sickness, etc.); sometimes they even insinuate that contraception could be ok (it is intrinsically evil to positively destroy the fecundity of the act: to destroy what God has made). Moreover, with marriage annulments now, the tendency of some priests is to consider that there are so much requirements to make a good marriage that¡¦ practically they prevent people from getting married: the result being that either they get married outside the Church (invalid), or they live together without being married: both are situations of grave sins, and a part of that responsibility falls on the priests who have failed to help them to make a good marriage.


To make a good marriage does require efforts, but we must be absolutely convinced that it is possible WITH THE GRACE OF OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST: taking the means to receive this grace, by daily family prayer and the regular practice of the sacraments.