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      Remarriage

Q ¡°Is the Church too rigid when she forbids to remarry? Should the Church be more loving, understanding etc. and give people second chances because we all make mistakes?¡±


A Infidelity is already a very grievous sin, but remarriage far from being a ¡°solution¡±, is a much bigger problem, because it fixes someone in the situation of sin, which is clearly forbidden by our Lord: ¡°he that shall marry her that is put away, committeth adultery¡± (and she too!)


In other words, making a ¡°mistake¡± once is bad enough; but multiplying the mistakes by a ¡°situation of mistake¡±, where adulteries are committed much more often, and it is more difficult to avoid them, this is a MEGA mistake! It is therefore much more merciful and compassionate to help people NOT to make such MEGA mistake, by sending a clear message that ¡°what God has joined together, let no man put asunder!¡± And therefore one may not divorce and remarry.


Moreover, if people know that they cannot remarry, then they will make more efforts to avoid fights in the family, and to avoid any infidelity, while if they think they can always remarry, then will make no efforts to renounce themselves. Hence permissiveness far from helping people to become better, only multiplies sin and weakens marriage itself even before any divorce! Those who suffer most of all this are the children.